What to Expect When Traveling to Italy for the First Time

My first trip out of North America was to Italy. I was in college and my (overly kind) mother booked us a 10-day trip through Venice, Florence and Rome. Sure, I had seen plenty of movies, but I still didn’t know what to expect when I arrived in Italy for the first time.

In fact, it is probably those very movies that color so many expectations for first time visitors. Italy is indeed a beautiful country full of art, history, food and wine, but it is still somewhat different from the Hollywood version.

Instead, here is what you should know before traveling to Italy for the first time:

Some of the “Italian” menu items you love are not actually Italian. I arrived in Italy dreaming of perfectly fresh pesto coating my pasta.  What I didn’t realize is that Italian food is incredibly regional and unless you find yourself in Liguria, you probably won’t find much pesto on the menu. Also not on the menu? Classics like spaghetti and meatballs. There is spaghetti, and there are meatballs, but they are served separately as a first and second course. If you are traveling to Italy for the first time, I highly recommend researching the local specialties or asking the waiter to suggest a plate of the day so that you can sample some of the more traditional food.

Rome Food Tour pasta

Even if it IS on the menu, it’s probably not available “to-go.” Dreaming of sipping your grande cappuccino while seated on the edge of the Trevi Fountain? I hate to be the one to tell you but: that is literally impossible. First, eating and drinking is simply not done in public. I figured this out the first time I popped open a bag of potato chips while walking in Venice. Non si fa – it is simply not done. Same goes for coffee, which is usually enjoyed while standing at the bar. (Or please be aware that it will literally cost more if you have it while seated at a table – another thing that I didn’t expect!) However, aside from the cultural dining differences in Italy as a whole, it is literally illegal to eat near any monument in Rome.  Better to find a restaurant with outdoor tables if you want to enjoy your (sit down) meal al fuori.

Meal time is sacred. Some people think that Italy observes “siesta” time, Spanish-style. This is not the case. However, many shops and businesses do close between 1 and 4 pm.  Rather than time for napping, this is time for eating, meeting friends and family, and relaxing. One thing you should except is that mealtimes in Italy tend to arrive slightly later – 1 pm for lunch and 8 pm for dinner. In fact, many restaurants only open at 8 pm, so if you get hungry before then you can partake in the Italian custom of ‘aperitivo’ – a drink and small snacks to ready your appetite.

renato e luisa restaurant in Rome

Customer service is different. Though greeting people is 100% essential, one of the things I realized early on during my first trip to Italy (and again when I moved to Rome full time) is that customer service is very very different. There are no waiters fawning over your every need, nor do they present the bill to encourage you to move on. In fact, you might have to physically wave someone down when you are ready to pay. This different attitude can be interpreted as brusque, but it is simply the way service works in Italy – which means that gratuity varies as well. Here is a guide to tipping in Italy so you know what to expect on the bill and how much to leave behind.

Business hours vary. In addition to closing for lunch, many business keep abbreviated hours on the weekends so it is good to plan activities ahead of time. Expect many businesses to stay open only on Saturday morning (until about 1:30 or 2 pm). If they are open on Sunday, it is likely only in the morning as well. In addition, many restaurants close on Monday so keep that in mind if there is somewhere special that you are dying to eat during your time in Italy!

You don’t need a car. Driving through Italian wine country is incredible, but you don’t technically need a car to travel in Italy. Because I was coming from an American city without great public transportation, I wasn’t sure I could figure out how to use buses, trains and metros in Italy. However, it is one of the most cost-effective ways to move around the country. I didn’t expect train travel to be so common and so easy.  Just remember to validate your tickets on the platform for the train, or when boarding the bus, because many tickets are sold without a fixed date and must be stamped to be considered official. Here’s a helpful resource for planning Italian travel and finding train and bus schedules.  And if you do plan to drive, please note that automatic transmission vehicles actually cost almost double the price to rent because manual transmission is much more common in Italy. You should plan to use toll roads frequently or be prepared to drive slowly on the narrow country lanes.

High season is serious business. More than 50 million tourists visit Italy every year. If your itinerary looks like monument BINGO, you might feel like you are bumping into all 50 million at once. While there are plenty of must-see sights, you will probably feel the burn out creeping in if you treat Italy like a checklist destination. Build some off the beaten path options into your plans, like the more unexpected corners of Rome, in order to take a break from the inevitable crowds.

Was there anything else you didn’t expect when you traveled to Italy the first time? Do you have any tips for new visitors?

8 Comments

  • Reply Sophia April 5, 2017 at 3:50 pm

    Great points there! One thing I didn’t expect the first time I visited Italy was that they prefer cash to credit cards (not common for non-touristy places), and they absolutely prefer to have the exact change when you pay in cash (no big notes), even it means you have to take forever to search for the little coins when there are literally 10 people queuing behind you! Ha ha.

  • Reply Michelle R April 5, 2017 at 5:22 pm

    I also was surprised by the cash preference — I’ve been three times, and if anything, I’ve noticed retailers and restaurants becoming LESS open to accepting large bills. Last time I visited, in 2014, I tried to pay for a 25 euro lunch with a 100 euro bill and they literally would not accept it. They pointed to an ATM and said I could get a smaller bill. So when I go back this month, I’m loaded up with only 10s and 20s!

  • Reply Jude April 5, 2017 at 10:23 pm

    The lack of public lavatories…apparently there are only four in the whole of Rome !! Instead, and who wants to use public lavatories anyway, make sure you use the facilities every time you stop at a cafe / osteria / bacaro.

  • Reply Lisa Barr April 6, 2017 at 1:41 am

    One thing I didn’t expect was the length of time required for seemingly simple transactions–picking up a rental car, for example, or changing money (back in the old days before ATMs were widespread). It’s far more complicated when you move to Italy, I know, but we Americans expect everything to happen immediately. If that’s your expectation, you won’t be happy in Italy.

    The second thing is that many of us had it drilled into our heads that dining out required a full, multi-course meal, which really isn’t the case. Two courses are fine, and sharing (uno per due) is also perfectly acceptable.

  • Reply Dario April 6, 2017 at 3:07 am

    Indeed.
    Most especially if you consider that the “Hollywood version”, from the Godfather to The Sopranos, as well as most of the US press, actually offers a very UNFLATTERING portrait of Italy.

  • Reply Ducos-Restagno Christine July 13, 2017 at 4:11 pm

    Very nice article! I’ve been living between France and Italy for about 20 years. I can assure you that talking to people in their language makes a huge difference wherever you go. If you really want to discover Italy, and not just its wonderful restaurants, shops, beaches, museums, etc, you should try and speak some Italian! There are some really nice apps such as VidaLingua that will allow you to meet the Italian people 😉

  • Reply john sheffield July 24, 2017 at 12:38 pm

    I recently spent some relaxing days in a peaceful location in Tuscany https://goo.gl/kBTCKK. The place was amazing and enchanting as in my dreams…back to the very unflattering portrait of Italy, what I did not expect was the lack of job opportunities especially for young people.
    I had the chance to talk to some of them and it was very sad.

    • Reply Natalie July 24, 2017 at 3:03 pm

      Very good point, John!

    Leave a Reply